Anand Vihar

It's important to come to terms with your grief. One has to learn to accept the event that causes grief and with times your scars become your ornaments and if not you can choose to perform kintsugi on them filling them with gold. Grief matters little in a nation where the base reality is rape. The truth about majority of people living in this nation is that their hands blow off and they must keep moving and this is the design. Survival doesn't allow majority of the people in this nation the time to grieve and grief related hysterics are privileges. Though just keeping moving on after the event that causes grief has its downsides as it walks with you and so one must always acknowledge both the event and the grief and it helps the mind and the body to metabolise them. I have had my encounter and sustained with the deep administration of this nation, if at all it can be called administration as I personally do not count mindless social engineering whims based manipulation of individuals and families as administration, and I can tell you that it is an absolutely evil and cowardly arrangement and by absolutely I mean absolute absolute. I took me some time to realise that it's not God, they are the scattered feudal lords, seths, contractors, builders politicians, godmen, celebrities, industrialists, journalists, corporate masters and mafia kingpins. I say scattered because there are good ones too kept as decoys. The control however is not scattered it is an omniscient panopticon with employed criminals who deal with greed, lust and cruelty in infinity. So a family that has hand of this administration can enjoy full anarchic freedom but a family that doesn't would suffer dysfunction and micromanaged totalitarianism. Each week on social media there would be a goat that would be sacrificed for public entertainment and as a humiliation ritual and then people would laugh, ridicule and forget until the next week arrives with a new goat. You can see that there is no God in picture and I find it funny because India was a land of gods. What remains is love. It would surely torture you but it is the only thing that remains as everything including love and family have been co-opted but in the end only love and family remain. Grief is necessary for growth but in the setting we live in, it's just an impeding force to slow down people something that can be exploited when the time arrives and so personal traumas don't matter much. One has to always remember that happiness is the base state of a human being and if one is not happy, something is wrong. Happiness is also the choice that we have to make again and again.